How To Get Remarried Without All The Headaches
Lately I've been hearing a lot about couples getting re-married after being divorced for a number of years.
I knew one couple who were marrried for 13 years, then they got divorced and were apart for 13 years, and then they got re-married.
They're divorced now.
They say it's easier to get divorced the second time, because like driving a car, now you've got experience under your belt, so you know the deal -- but who knows? I'm sure in some cases it is easier, and in others, it's just as difficult.
Personally, I'd sooner turn gay before I'd remarry my ex-wife, but that's neither here nor there.
Why do you think so many folks get re-married? Is it because like riding a bike, it's easier to "get back on" a former relationship -- even with all the flaws it might have -- than it is to go weeding through the next "crop" of prospects that get whisked through through your courtship wheel?
I have no idea, but I'd say that's partially true. Loads of my friends who are single -- both men AND women -- are constantly telling me "There are NO good guys (or) gals out there. All the good one's are taken." And the amount of effort it takes to go through the entire dating process surely isn't easy, but remember... even in a good relationship you need to work at it to make sure it stays that way.
There really is no free lunch when it comes to this.
Now what about getting re-acquainted with an old flame? I wonder if this is difficult or if, like I said before, it IS like bike-riding and all you need to do is just "hop" back on?
I think it depends, just the same way it is in business. For instance, how do you get re-acquainted with an old client you haven't spoken to in a while? Especially when the reason you haven't spoken to them is because YOU neglected to stay in contact with them.
You can't just call them up and say "Hey there, I know I haven't paid any attention to you in a dog's age, but you know... I can really use a few extra bucks this month, and I came across your name in my old sales ledger and figured "Sheesh, you're good for a few bucks," so here I am!"
No, no, no, this won't work at all, now will it?
That's why, on page 10 of the "Tales From The Throne" manual, I've included a 4-page discussion that tells you EXACTLY how to go about hooking up with an old client, and... I've even included a "re-activation" letter you can use, which totally disarms your old customer and makes you look like a true professional, instead of a desparate little bugger who just got caught with his hands in the cookie jar.
This letter USED to be posted on my website, but I had to remove it because I kept getting so many questions about it. That's why I decided to include it in the "Tales From The Throne", which you can ONLY get when you order The Seductive Selling System - http://www.kingofcopy.com/seductive - along with all the other 7 and a half pounds of information that comes with your system.
Now I'm off to renew my vows. Stay tuned.
Now go sell something,